Comments on: The Heart of Her Husband: Day 4 http://avirtuouswoman.org/2010/02/04/the-heart-of-her-husband-day-4/ A Proverbs 31 Ministry Thu, 17 May 2012 20:41:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Cora http://avirtuouswoman.org/2010/02/04/the-heart-of-her-husband-day-4/comment-page-1/#comment-417 Cora Sat, 13 Feb 2010 21:40:12 +0000 http://www.avirtuouswoman.org/?p=737#comment-417 Melissa My husband comes from a family that ws broken from the norm. Thast as far as I will elaborate. We have worked through so many bad things we should not say and do i a marriage it is uncanning. Many of the things on you rlist are things my husband ws doing to his family, why because of his families break up. I Love my husband and yes, some times we want to throw in the towel, but more than anything we are smarter for listening and thinking things through. Every family has disfuctions. Drawing close as a family and keeping strangers at bay keeps intimacy inside your home and family and marriage. Cora Melissa

My husband comes from a family that ws broken from the norm. Thast as far as I will elaborate. We have worked through so many bad things we should not say and do i a marriage it is uncanning. Many of the things on you rlist are things my husband ws doing to his family, why because of his families break up. I Love my husband and yes, some times we want to throw in the towel, but more than anything we are smarter for listening and thinking things through. Every family has disfuctions. Drawing close as a family and keeping strangers at bay keeps intimacy inside your home and family and marriage. Cora

]]> By: Jen http://avirtuouswoman.org/2010/02/04/the-heart-of-her-husband-day-4/comment-page-1/#comment-386 Jen Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:56:42 +0000 http://www.avirtuouswoman.org/?p=737#comment-386 Ouch... This one hit on some areas that i have recognized in my own life. Thank you!!! Ouch… This one hit on some areas that i have recognized in my own life. Thank you!!!

]]> By: Sherry http://avirtuouswoman.org/2010/02/04/the-heart-of-her-husband-day-4/comment-page-1/#comment-383 Sherry Fri, 05 Feb 2010 14:24:49 +0000 http://www.avirtuouswoman.org/?p=737#comment-383 I am l oving the series. One thing that I did several months ago after being convicted was to take off exboyfriend from Facebook. It just didn't seem right. Leave room for no doubt! :D I am l oving the series. One thing that I did several months ago after being convicted was to take off exboyfriend from Facebook. It just didn’t seem right. Leave room for no doubt! :D

]]> By: Melissa Greene http://avirtuouswoman.org/2010/02/04/the-heart-of-her-husband-day-4/comment-page-1/#comment-382 Melissa Greene Fri, 05 Feb 2010 06:28:31 +0000 http://www.avirtuouswoman.org/?p=737#comment-382 Thank you Melissa for this. The Lord has been calling me to come up higher in some of these areas from day 1-4. I had gotten so busy serving others that I let my marriage suffer and needed a reminder of the importance of submitting to my husband again, respecting my husband and being trust worthy in the area of our home(more organized and clean), wasting money, and respecting him. I had gotten way out of balance and the Lord had me let go of some of the things I was doing, even though they were good and serving my community, they were taking up way too much of my time and energy. I have repented of it and I am so glad for this study. I needed to embrace the importance of my Biblical role in my marriage, I want to be a helpmate for my husband so that he can rise up and be all he was meant to be. I know as I please the Lord, it will please my husband and I will be more at peace. I need this study to give me guidance and encouragement. And it is right on time.... Thank you! Thank you Melissa for this. The Lord has been calling me to come up higher in some of these areas from day 1-4. I had gotten so busy serving others that I let my marriage suffer and needed a reminder of the importance of submitting to my husband again, respecting my husband and being trust worthy in the area of our home(more organized and clean), wasting money, and respecting him. I had gotten way out of balance and the Lord had me let go of some of the things I was doing, even though they were good and serving my community, they were taking up way too much of my time and energy. I have repented of it and I am so glad for this study. I needed to embrace the importance of my Biblical role in my marriage, I want to be a helpmate for my husband so that he can rise up and be all he was meant to be. I know as I please the Lord, it will please my husband and I will be more at peace. I need this study to give me guidance and encouragement. And it is right on time…. Thank you!

]]> By: Michelle http://avirtuouswoman.org/2010/02/04/the-heart-of-her-husband-day-4/comment-page-1/#comment-373 Michelle Thu, 04 Feb 2010 16:02:20 +0000 http://www.avirtuouswoman.org/?p=737#comment-373 Great points today Melissa. I hope you don't mind me adding depth to - "Do you flirt with other men? (however “innocently”)" In the book Every Woman's Battle by Shannon Etheridge she talks about this in great detail. You don't want to give room for the devil to come into your marriage by what you call innocent. In this day and age where Christian divorce rate mirrors that of secular marriages we need to do what ever it takes to protect our marriages. I can attest that this is a slippery slope so as Ms. Etheridge would say, "keep loose lips closed." I say flirt with the one that you are in covenant with and add a little spice. He appreciates being appreciated as much as you do. Have a blessed and awesome day ladies. Great points today Melissa. I hope you don’t mind me adding depth to – “Do you flirt with other men? (however “innocently”)” In the book Every Woman’s Battle by Shannon Etheridge she talks about this in great detail. You don’t want to give room for the devil to come into your marriage by what you call innocent. In this day and age where Christian divorce rate mirrors that of secular marriages we need to do what ever it takes to protect our marriages.

I can attest that this is a slippery slope so as Ms. Etheridge would say, “keep loose lips closed.” I say flirt with the one that you are in covenant with and add a little spice. He appreciates being appreciated as much as you do.

Have a blessed and awesome day ladies.

]]> By: Judy http://avirtuouswoman.org/2010/02/04/the-heart-of-her-husband-day-4/comment-page-1/#comment-372 Judy Thu, 04 Feb 2010 15:57:21 +0000 http://www.avirtuouswoman.org/?p=737#comment-372 Yes indeed! I love the drawing Melissa - I think I may use this as inspiration for St. Valentine's - I can imagine it in a card. My fiancé is delighted that I adore his mother (I really and truly do) and try to do things that she does - because it makes him happy. That's a St. Valentine's Day gift, isn't it? Yes indeed! I love the drawing Melissa – I think I may use this as inspiration for St. Valentine’s – I can imagine it in a card.

My fiancé is delighted that I adore his mother (I really and truly do) and try to do things that she does – because it makes him happy. That’s a St. Valentine’s Day gift, isn’t it?

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