With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, I thought it’d be fun to share a big list of 100 ways to love your husband. Of course, you don’t need to wait for Valentine’s Day to practice these ideas – they should be a part of your every day married life!
There are so many ways to love your husband. Whether it’s a big gesture that takes a lot of planning or a simple action such as smiling at the right time, either one can show him how much you love him.
Out of all the ways to love your husband, I believe there are more important choices than others. Praying for your husband and supporting him are some of the most important ways you can love your husband. At the same time, this is also pleasing to God.
If you would like some inspiration for ways to love your husband, this list is encouraging and insightful.
100 Ways to Love Your Husband
- Pray for him
- Support him in his endeavors
- Be patient with him
- Make his favorite meal
- Learn his love language
- Don’t play mind games
- Show genuine interest in the things he likes
- Don’t belittle him, especially in front of others
- Let go of the small stuff
- Make him laugh
- Don’t make a big decision without him
- Give him alone time, without kids
- Focus on his positives, not his negatives
- Don’t let family members or friends talk bad about him
- Let a date be free of serious discussion and full of fun
- Be thoughtful and do something special to show your love
- Admit when you’re wrong and don’t just expect him to say you’re right
- Don’t get so busy that you don’t have time for him
- Give him a back massage
- Send cute messages while he’s at work
- Don’t expect him to fix something he can’t fix
- Don’t blame everything on him when something goes wrong
- Don’t yell at him, have a calm discussion
- Voice that you’re proud of him
- Be quiet, just enjoy his company
- Don’t push him when he’s in a bad mood
- Help him realize and reach his dreams
- Don’t expect him to be perfect
- Don’t over analyze everything he says
- Watch sports with him
- Let him teach you
- Let him have guy time without making him feel guilty
- Don’t downgrade the job he has
- Give him random kisses
- Give him random hugs
- Don’t talk over him
- Don’t look at your phone while he’s talking to you
- Dress up once in a while to look your best just for him
- Don’t mock him, especially to others
- Get him something he’s always wanted
- Bring him a special snack home when you’re at the store
- Make his favorite dessert
- Don’t bombard him with a ton of stuff after he just got home from work
- Respect his decisions
- Don’t ignore him when he’s talking to you, angry or not
- Back him up when others come against him
- Don’t question him unless it’s in private
- Pay attention and rejoice with him when he tells you something exciting
- Don’t bring up mistakes that are in the past
- Don’t compare him to other men
- Don’t gripe when he asks for help
- Don’t belittle him if he asks for help
- Don’t make being tired a competition
- Let him sleep in on days off
- Don’t make him do embarrassing things
- Don’t treat him like a child, treat him like an equal
- Leave notes for him around the house or in his lunch
- Initiate being intimate first, instead of him
- Laugh at his jokes
- Listen when he’s talking to you
- Don’t act like you’re smarter than him
- Comfort him when he’s getting upset
- Understand that he’s a man and will think differently than you
- Don’t expect him to guess at why you’re mad
- Don’t give him the silent treatment
- Don’t make him go to sleep with you angry
- Don’t bring up stressful subjects right before he leaves for work
- Accept his apology, don’t throw it back in his face
- Randomly thank him for all he does
- Simply tell him how much you adore him
- Don’t make him jump through hoops to get your forgiveness
- Be grateful and appreciative of the gifts he gets you
- Don’t correct him in front of people
- Be the first to say you’re sorry
- Ask him if there’s anything you can do to help him in general
- Don’t fill his weekends with a bunch of busy work
- Don’t volunteer him for things without asking
- Serve him first at the dinner table
- Hold his hand in public places
- Listen to his advice
- Don’t get mad when he tries to fix something you were just complaining about
- Compliment him
- Get into one of his hobbies with him
- Don’t share what he tells you in confidence
- Cuddle him
- Look him in the eyes and smile, purposefully throughout the day
- Tell him why you love him
- Take care of him when he’s sick
- Get him his coffee in the morning
- Play with his hair
- Touch his face tenderly
- Teach your children to respect him
- Don’t get mad if he expresses emotions, he has feelings too
- If he makes an effort to spruce up for you, tell him how handsome he is
- If he makes a mistake, don’t chastise to him
- Don’t nag him
- Run some errands for him he hasn’t been able to fit in
- Watch one of his favorite movies with him you wouldn’t normally watch
- Make him a special breakfast or breakfast in bed
- Don’t jump to conclusions and accuse him
You can definitely take some of these ideas and expand them to fit you and the relationship you have with your husband. Not all marriages are the same however, many of these should be universal and fit across the board. The options that don’t, should still be able to be adjusted to fit into a marriage. Some of these ideas may even help you come up with your own ideas in order to show your husband just how much you love him. In turn, you can show him how much God truly loves him as well.
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