100 Ways to Love Your Husband + Free Printable Checklist

With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, I thought it’d be fun to share a big list of 100 ways to love your husband. Of course, you don’t need to wait for Valentine’s Day to practice these ideas – they should be a part of your every day married life!

There are so many ways to love your husband. Whether it’s a big gesture that takes a lot of planning or a simple action such as smiling at the right time, either one can show him how much you love him.

Out of all the ways to love your husband, I believe there are more important choices than others. Praying for your husband and supporting him are some of the most important ways you can love your husband. At the same time, this is also pleasing to God.

If you would like some inspiration for ways to love your husband, this list is encouraging and insightful.

100 Ways to Love Your Husband

1. Pray for him
2. Support him in his endeavors
3. Be patient with him
4. Make his favorite meal
5. Learn his love language
6. Don’t play mind games
7. Show genuine interest in the things he likes
8. Don’t belittle him, especially in front of others
9. Let go of the small stuff
10. Make him laugh
11. Don’t make a big decision without him
12. Give him alone time, without kids
13. Focus on his positives, not his negatives
14. Don’t let family members or friends talk bad about him
15. Let a date be free of serious discussion and full of fun
16. Be thoughtful and do something special to show your love
17. Admit when you’re wrong and don’t just expect him to say you’re right
18. Don’t get so busy that you don’t have time for him
19. Give him a back massage
20. Send cute messages while he’s at work
21. Don’t expect him to fix something he can’t fix
22. Don’t blame everything on him when something goes wrong
23. Don’t yell at him, have a calm discussion
24. Voice that you’re proud of him
25. Be quiet, just enjoy his company
26. Don’t push him when he’s in a bad mood
27. Help him realize and reach his dreams
28. Don’t expect him to be perfect
29. Don’t over analyze everything he says
30. Watch sports with him
31. Let him teach you
32. Let him have guy time without making him feel guilty
33. Don’t downgrade the job he has
34. Give him random kisses
35. Give him random hugs
36. Don’t talk over him
37. Don’t look at your phone while he’s talking to you
38. Dress up once in a while to look your best just for him
39. Don’t mock him, especially to others
40. Get him something he’s always wanted
41. Bring him a special snack home when you’re at the store
42. Make his favorite dessert
43. Don’t bombard him with a ton of stuff after he just got home from work
44. Respect his decisions
45. Don’t ignore him when he’s talking to you, angry or not
46. Back him up when others come against him
47. Don’t question him unless it’s in private
48. Pay attention and rejoice with him when he tells you something exciting
49. Don’t bring up mistakes that are in the past
50. Don’t compare him to other men
51. Don’t gripe when he asks for help
52. Don’t belittle him if he asks for help
53. Don’t make being tired a competition
54. Let him sleep in on days off
55. Don’t make him do embarrassing things
56. Don’t treat him like a child, treat him like an equal
57. Leave notes for him around the house or in his lunch
58. Initiate being intimate first, instead of him
59. Laugh at his jokes
60. Listen when he’s talking to you
61. Don’t act like you’re smarter than him
62. Comfort him when he’s getting upset
63. Understand that he’s a man and will think differently than you
64. Don’t expect him to guess at why you’re mad
65. Don’t give him the silent treatment
66. Don’t make him go to sleep with you angry
67. Don’t bring up stressful subjects right before he leaves for work
68. Accept his apology, don’t throw it back in his face
69. Randomly thank him for all he does
70. Simply tell him how much you adore him
71. Don’t make him jump through hoops to get your forgiveness
72. Be grateful and appreciative of the gifts he gets you
73. Don’t correct him in front of people
74. Be the first to say you’re sorry
75. Ask him if there’s anything you can do to help him in general
76. Don’t fill his weekends with a bunch of busy work
77. Don’t volunteer him for things without asking
78. Serve him first at the dinner table
79. Hold his hand in public places
80. Listen to his advice
81. Don’t get mad when he tries to fix something you were just complaining about
82. Compliment him
83. Get into one of his hobbies with him
84. Don’t share what he tells you in confidence
85. Cuddle him
86. Look him in the eyes and smile, purposefully throughout the day
87. Tell him why you love him
88. Take care of him when he’s sick
89. Get him his coffee in the morning
90. Play with his hair
91. Touch his face tenderly
92. Teach your children to respect him
93. Don’t get mad if he expresses emotions, he has feelings too
94. If he makes an effort to spruce up for you, tell him how handsome he is
95. If he makes a mistake, don’t chastise to him
96. Don’t nag him
97. Run some errands for him he hasn’t been able to fit in
98. Watch one of his favorite movies with him you wouldn’t normally watch
99. Make him a special breakfast or breakfast in bed
100. Don’t jump to conclusions and accuse him

You can definitely take some of these ideas and expand them to fit you and the relationship you have with your husband. Not all marriages are the same however, many of these should be universal and fit across the board. The options that don’t, should still be able to be adjusted to fit into a marriage. Some of these ideas may even help you come up with your own ideas in order to show your husband just how much you love him. In turn, you can show him how much God truly loves him as well.

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