Be a Kind Wife | 20 Random Acts of Kindness for Your Husband

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Welcome to day three of the Proverbs 31 Prayer Challenge! Today we’re looking at and praying Proverbs 31:12. The Proverbs 31 woman is a kind wife. So today we’re looking at ways you can be kind & thoughtful to your husband. Plus, be sure to download my free printable 20 Random Acts of Kindness for Your Husband at the end of the post!

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Proverbs 31 Prayer Challenge: Day 3

This 21 Day Proverbs 31 Prayer Challenge is based on my post: Praying through Proverbs 31.

Today’s prayer challenge: Proverbs 31:12

She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

Today’s Prayer:

Dear Heavenly Father,

Help me to be a kind wife. I want to be a blessing to my husband. Please help me to offer grace and love every day to the man I married. (John 13:34) Help us to stay connected and take time each day to show one another acts of kindness.

And Lord, my desire is to serve You well. I want to do good and not harm. I long to hear you say to me in that day: “Well done my good and faithful servant.” (Matthew 25:23) 


She is a kind wife.

Nothing can cause stress like an unhappy marriage. So if you are looking for some peace and calm in your life, it’s important to focus your time and energy on your marriage. Being a kind wife can go a long way toward making your marriage more fulfilling.

So often we forget why we got married in the first place. As the months and years pass by, as bills need to be paid and children come along, we forget the ideas and dreams we once had. Staying connected to your husband and treating him with kindness isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth the effort!

3 Things You Can Do Today to Connect

1. Smile at your husband. And I don’t just mean a half-hearted, “I’ll smile if I have to” smile. I mean a genuine from the depth of your heart smile. Look him in the eyes and let him see the love your still have for him. He wants to know you like him. He wants to know he’s appreciated. A smile communicates those feelings without the need for words. {Of course, sweet words are good too!}

2. Make love and make it count. For moms, especially tired moms, sex isn’t always a big priority. But for most husbands, sex always matters. They don’t feel emotionally connected unless you are sexually intimate on a frequent/ regular basis. And whether you want to admit it or not – sex is important. So make time to really make love to your husband. Show him he still makes your heart race.

related: I highly recommend Shelia Wray Gregoire’s Boost Your Libido Course for Christian Women!

3. Do something “just because.” Random acts of kindness toward your husband can go so far toward creating good will and happiness within your marriage. You know what your husband likes. You know what makes him happy. So why choose one thing today to make him feel special?

  • Maybe he loves having his feet massaged after a long day at work.
  • Maybe he has a favorite meal that’s just a little bit complicated to make and you don’t make it often – put it on the menu!
  • Maybe he loves baseball and you don’t. Make some fun snacks and watch the game with him.
  • Maybe he’d be really surprised if you showed up at work for a lunch date with him.

You get the idea. Let him know he matters to you.

Remember, the Proverbs 31 woman is a kind wife. She’s thoughtful toward her husband. She seeks to make his day better and stay emotionally connected to him. She wants to do him good all the days of her life.

It’s easy when we get bogged down in the mundane, daily trials of life to remember that a little act of kindness can go a long way toward brightening someone’s day. And this is no less true in a marriage! Showing your husband small, random acts of kindness on a regular basis will not only make him happy, but will strengthen your love for him as well.

20 Random Acts of Kindness for Your Husband

  1. Give him a massage.
  2. Make his favorite meal.
  3. Serve him breakfast in bed.
  4. Send him a sweet text message.
  5. Tell him something you admire about him.
  6. Leave his favorite treat or candy on his pillow.
  7. Tell him one of your favorite memories about him.
  8. Surprise him at work.
  9. Ask about his day and really listen.
  10. Do one of his favorite activities together.
  11. Draw a heart on the steamy bathroom mirror.
  12. Give him a foot massage.
  13. Leave a love note in his car.
  14. Plan a special getaway for just the two of you.
  15. Bring him a cool drink when he’s working hard.
  16. Surprise him with a gift he’s been wanting.
  17. Bake him a pie.
  18. Wash his car and vacuum it out.
  19. Greet him at the door with a 15 second kiss.
  20. Make a list of all your favorite things about him.

A good marriage takes time and effort. Showing random acts of kindness for your husband is a great way to nurture your marriage. What can you do today to make your marriage a little sweeter? How do you show your husband he’s still the one? Let me know in the comments below.

Actions Steps to Take Today

  1. Pray and ask God to show you how you can be a kind wife to your husband.
  2. Search your heart to see if you are holding on to bitterness or resentment that keeps you from fully connecting with your husband.
  3. Print out my free printable Random Acts of Kindness for Your Husband below, if desired.
  4. Commit to doing 20 Random Acts of Kindness for your husband over the next 30 days.

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