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Praying for Your Husband

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Today I’m talking about how important it is to be praying for your husband every day. As wives, we should be on our knees every morning offering petitions on behalf of our spouse. Not selfish prayers (Lord, could you please make him a better husband?) but prayers that are fervent, earnest, and heartfelt. Do you really pray for your husband?

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Praying for Your Husband

Your husband leaves home each morning to go to work and will face frustrations and temptations. He needs a covering of prayer. Years ago, I read the book by Stormie Omartian, The Power of a Praying Wife. It is an excellent book you should read if you have not already!


In the first few pages she writes:

“As I sat there, God also impressed upon my heart that if I would deliberately lay down my life before His throne, die to the desire to leave, and give my needs to Him, He would teach me how to lay down my life in prayer for Michael. He would show me how to really intercede for him as a son of Hod, and in the process He would revive my marriage and pour His blessings on both of us….

I began to pray everyday for Michael, like I had never prayed before. Each time, though, I had to confess my own hardness of heart, I saw how deeply hurt and unforgiving of him I was. I don’t want to pray for him. I don’t want to ask God to bless him. I only want God to strike his heart with lightning and convict him of how cruel he has been, I thought. I had to say over and over, “God, I confess my unforgiveness toward my husband. Deliver me from all of it.”

Your prayers for your husband have power. Claim Scripture promises over him. When you have a disagreement with your husband, instead of arguing and raising your voice ask God to give you a meek and quiet spirit. Remember the words of the Bible that a soft voice turns away wrath. Go and pray about it.

There is power in prayer, but you need to have a right spirit. Ask God to forgive you of your own stubborn pride, your own selfish attitude and to create a clean heart within you.

How to Pray for Your Husband

There are so many things you can pray about for your husband. First and foremost, you can ask God to help you to become the wife He wants you to be – the kind of wife your husband needs you to be. Stormie lists thirty different ways to pray for your husband. Some of them include, his work, his finances, his temptations, his health, his priorities, his fatherhood. Think of some of the areas in your own husbands life that you can give some serious prayer attention and write them down.

I like to encourage women to keep a prayer journal. Sparkles of Sunshine has a great free printable prayer journal which includes a section for your husband!

Writing down your prayers will help you stay accountable and focused when praying. Perhaps you would like to make a bookmark with a list of areas in your husband’s life that you can pray about and put it in your prayer journal or Bible. However you decide to pray, make it a daily habit and watch how God will bless your marriage!


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  1. Melissa, this blog piqued my curiosity into Stormie Omartian "Power of a Praying Wife"...Can I just say thank you so much for recommending this! I have seen it do wonders in my marriage that I thought was already doing well. It shifted my focus to not so much praying for my husband to change, but to really truly pray for him and take time to examine my own part in it! Thank you so much for sharing!
  2. Hey Melissa. Thank you so much for the encouragement to pray for our husbands. I just want to ask if it's possible to pray for my husband to be redeemed from generational curses. I feel some of these curses are the reason for his nightmares every week. I also don't want the same family curses to affect my children. He is hardly prayerful even though I constantly encourage him to. Please help...

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